Jeffrey & Reggie

Portrait of Reggie and Jeffrey outside near an ocean cliff

Dear Expectant Mother,

Hello! We are Jeffrey & Reggie. We’re a loving couple looking to start a family. We have both wanted to be parents all our lives. We both love kids and have focused our careers around them. We have great respect and admiration for the decision you are making. We would love the opportunity to get to know you and your hopes for your child’s future. Thank you for taking the time to learn about us and our dream of growing our family.

We met online 8 years ago when we were both living in Los Angeles. With our busy schedules, however, it took almost a year to finally go on our first date! The wait was well worth it as we have been inseparable since. Our shared family values and love for children have kept us close together. We now live in the Bay Area, close to family and friends, in a beautiful home with our spoiled great dane, Brahms. We love to travel, host game nights, try new restaurants, and go hiking with our dog.

Introducing Reggie Written by Jeffrey

Reggie is the voice of reason, and the one family and friends rely on for guidance and comfort. His gentle and calm nature allow others to feel comfortable. He is an amazing uncle with an extremely playful, outgoing and reassuring presence. His infectious smile warms a room, and his intelligence is masked by humility. Reggie is always willing to compromise and see other’s perspective. Most importantly, he has the biggest heart and will always make sure you feel loved.

Fun Facts About Reggie
  • Plays the piano
  • Speaks Tagalog
  • Swims and plays volleyball
  • Bay area sports fan!
  • Works at his dream job as a Pediatrician
For Work

We both work with kids in our daily lives. Reggie is a pediatrician and cares for kids in the community while Jeffrey is a 2nd grade teacher in our neighborhood school.


Our Dog

Brahms is a 6 year old loving great dane. He is a gentle giant and well loved by all of our neighbors. His most favorite activities are to cuddle and sleep!

Introducing Jeffrey Written by Reggie

Jeffrey is the most loving partner with the kindest soul. I am very lucky to call him my husband. He grew up in Michigan with strong midwest values. He comes from a close and loving family. He is goal-oriented and works hard in all aspects of his life. He comes from a long line of teachers and being around kids is very natural for him. He is good communicator and is also easy to talk to. He has a lot of love in his heart for all living things. He is the type of person that can brighten your day with just a smile!

Fun Facts About Jeffrey
  • Plays the viola
  • Plays soccer
  • Passion for fitness
  • Favorite Children’s Book: The Giving Tree
  • Favorite Holiday: Halloween
Lessons We Will Teach Your Child
  • How to be confident in his/her own skin.
  • How to explore his/her passions and follow dreams.
  • How to work hard with integrity and grit.
  • How to live life to the fullest and have fun.
  • How to have a positive mindset and problem solve during difficult situations.
Our Home

We live in Benicia, California – a quiet, tight-knit community outside of San Francisco. We bought our home because of the outdoor space, proximity to friends and family, and the highly-sought-after schools where Jeffrey currently works. Our nieces and nephews love swinging on our swingset and running around with our dog. We love being so close to the beach, the mountains, and San Francisco which are all a short drive away!

Our Family

As with many Filipino families, Reggie’s family and friends all live close by. Reggie’s parents still live in the house they raised their kids in which is about 15 minutes away. His siblings and their families have also stayed close in the surrounding cities. Jeffrey’s family lives in Michigan and we visit them multiple times a year. We have forged a community of friends close by as well.

Introducing Reggie Written by Jeffrey

Reggie is the voice of reason, and the one family and friends rely on for guidance and comfort. His gentle and calm nature allow others to feel comfortable. He is an amazing uncle with an extremely playful, outgoing and reassuring presence. His infectious smile warms a room, and his intelligence is masked by humility. Reggie is always willing to compromise and see other’s perspective. Most importantly, he has the biggest heart and will always make sure you feel loved. 

Portrait of Reggie
Reggie on our anniversary

Fun Facts About Reggie

  • Plays the piano
  • Speaks Tagalog
  • Swims and plays volleyball
  • Bay area sports fan!
  • Works at his dream job as a Pediatrician

For Work

We both work with kids in our daily lives. Reggie is a pediatrician and cares for kids in the community while Jeffrey is a 2nd grade teacher in our neighborhood school.

Our Dog

Portrait of Reggie and Jeffrey with their dog
Family Christmas photo!

Brahms is a 6 year old loving great dane. He is a gentle giant and well loved by all of our neighbors. His most favorite activities are to cuddle and sleep!

Introducing Jeffrey Written by Reggie

Jeffrey is the most loving partner with the kindest soul. I am very lucky to call him my husband. He grew up in Michigan with strong midwest values. He comes from a close and loving family. He is goal-oriented and works hard in all aspects of his life. He comes from a long line of teachers and being around kids is very natural for him. He is good communicator and is also easy to talk to. He has a lot of love in his heart for all living things. He is the type of person that can brighten your day with just a smile!

Fun Facts About Jeffrey

  • Plays the viola
  • Plays soccer
  • Passion for fitness
  • Favorite Children’s Book: The Giving Tree
  • Favorite Holiday: Halloween

Lessons We Will Teach Your Child

  • How to be confident in his/her own skin.
  • How to explore his/her passions and follow dreams.
  • How to work hard with integrity and grit.
  • How to live life to the fullest and have fun.
  • How to have a positive mindset and problem solve during difficult situations.

Our Home

Jeffrey and Reggie's two story home with garage with lawn
Home sweet home!

We live in Benicia, California – a quiet, tight-knit community outside of San Francisco. We bought our home because of the outdoor space, proximity to friends and family, and the highly-sought-after schools where Jeffrey currently works. Our nieces and nephews love swinging on our swingset and running around with our dog. We love being so close to the beach, the mountains, and San Francisco which are all a short drive away!

Our Family

As with many Filipino families, Reggie’s family and friends all live close by. Reggie’s parents still live in the house they raised their kids in which is about 15 minutes away. His siblings and their families have also stayed close in the surrounding cities. Jeffrey’s family lives in Michigan and we visit them multiple times a year. We have forged a community of friends close by as well.

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Thank You

Thank you for taking the time to get to know a little bit about us! We would be honored to become parents and would treasure your child every day.  We promise to give your child a loving home.  We are well equipped to ensure your child stays healthy and provide them with a well-rounded education.  We hope to raise them to be a kind human being.  We will provide them with unconditional love, support, guidance and will always encourage them to follow their dreams.

Contact us! Email us at JeffreyandReggie@gmail.com or call/text us at (510) 736-0449. You can also reach our warm and helpful adoption attorneys, Karin Stoeckenius and Holly Wotherspoon at 1-800-U-Adopt-US (1-800-823-6788) or email them at: info@adamsromer.com. You can also visit their website at www.adamsromer.com.